BREAK MY ABUSE CODE
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RECLAIM YOUR VOICE
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Not crisis care
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Not quick fixes
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A path you can actually hold
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Safety before depth
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Structure before overwhelm
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Change at your pace
NEXT EVENT
Life By Your Design
Does your past trauma find you saying or thinking to yourself:
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"If I want it done right, I'll do it myself"
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"Depending on others creates risk"
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" I just can't let anybody get too close"
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"Staying in control keeps things together"
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"This is just how I'm wired"
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"Emotions complicate execution"
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"I don't feel comfortable in my own skin"
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"If they really knew what happened to me...
LBYD-14 or 28-day clarity readiness to make sure this is the right path for you to begin or continue healing. No or little experience addressing start with 28-day, more experience start with 14-day. This is the entry portal to reclaiming your life. You choose!
Thomas Edward: MA, CPC, ELI-MP, ACC, MHN. I'm a male survivor resiliency coach and guide for men healing for childhood sexual trauma. I combine proven strategies, neuroscience, and lived experiences to help you rebuild from the inside out. No quick fixes, no endless processing. Just a path that respects your pace.
No more living in survival mode because of the childhood trauma
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being visible again
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finding your voice
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releasing the shame
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shedding the trauma
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now reclaiming life
Join Rudi on November 15th 2035 in San Francisco!
Join Rudi on November 15th 2035 in San Francisco!
THOMAS EDWARD
HOW THE PROCESS WORKS
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START WITH LIFE BY YOUR DESIGN
(LBYD-14 or 28)
Life By Your Design™ is a 14 or 28-day, trauma-informed entry experience for men who are ready to move from survival into intentional living. It helps you understand how early experiences shaped your identity, choices, and nervous system—and gives you practical tools to regain clarity and agency.
This container also serves as the starting point for men considering the full Break My Abuse Code™ recovery program. For those who listened to the podcasts, watched YouTube Male Survivor Journey Channel, or been to a conference and kind of know you are ready, please use the Life By Your Design-14 days.
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WHICH BUILDS CAPACITY & CLARITY
LBYD serves to help you strengthen your ability to stay present with thoughts, emotions, and body responses without shutting down or becoming overwhelmed. You learn how to regulate your nervous system and recognize the patterns that have been running your life beneath awareness.
This clarity creates safety inside your body and mind, making deeper healing work possible rather than destabilizing.
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APPLY FOR THE FULL PROGRAM
This is where you step into a structured, trauma-informed healing environment through the Break My Abuse Code™ program.
Everything leading up to this point was designed to help you build readiness, clarity, and confidence that this work is the right fit for you.
Once accepted, you formally begin the program and enter a safe, supported space for deeper recovery and lasting transformation.
